DXXXRK Diary

  • Three months later: Opening my books for Submission

    When I first started as Zex, submission was what I was known for. Always spreading myself (thin) for the audience. It was a role that was decided for me, rather than a choice I was given, and thus, gave me mixed feelings towards the idea of submitting to others. It’s not true submission if it’s…

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  • Travel update: London, UK, 5th August 2026

    Good morning, I’ve been asked by many to reach out on my return to London. The time has come! I’ll be in London, UK from Wednesday 5th August, and will be there for roughly two weeks (or longer if there’s something pleasing to keep me around). Please don’t leave your application till last minute. That always…

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  • Asexuality and Sex Work

    Asexual: Asexual people — also known as “Ace” or “Aces” — may experience little or no sexual attraction and/or experience sexual attraction in a non-normative way. Demisexual (on the asexuality spectrum): People who only experience sexual attraction once they form a strong emotional connection with another person. Reference: The Trevor Project In case you didn’t…

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  • Why are humans being trained to accept AI? From the perspective of a Dominatrix

    It’s easy to get others to fulfil tasks when you force them into submission, but there’s no art in that. Any good Dominatrix/negotiator will tell you that genuine empathy and active consent is the only way to achieve healthy and mutual goals in the long run. Berating people is rich man’s approach, and not exactly…

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  • Important hiatus and travel update

    Oh goodness, I don’t even know where to start. First of all – I missed you, pretty website, *kiss kiss kiss*. Anyone following my socials will know that I’ve been in website limbo for the last week or so. My previous hosting site no longer wanted to be associated with those in the world’s oldest…

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  • Protected: The art of Dollification

    There is no excerpt because this is a protected post.

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  • My partner doesn’t want to have sex with me but my lovers do – KLE post

    “Enjoy this fresh and sexy take on how one of our companions navigates the emotional landscape of home and professional life.  Good Grief is disarming and charming in equal measure.” Read my new post over on Kinky London Escorts.

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  • London recap and session confession: Glory Hole

    As we say goodbye to June, I’d like to look back on the fun stuff from this month. Oh dear. My recent London trip was my most exciting yet. It’s been dreadfully confusing for me. Have given myself a popping jaw from the stress and excitement, but it’s either another way for you to torment…

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  • Why do men keep telling Me how tall they are?

    When I ask men, “What do you have to offer (Me)?” or, “Why do you think we’d be a good fit?”, they respond with the following: “I’m 6 foot (+)” “I’m great at sex, and you’ve had nothing like me” “I think you’re better looking than other women” These answers are boring yet so interesting…

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  • Travel: London, UK, Monday 1st June

    Good afternoon, My upcoming London trip is already looking to be fun and enticing. Should you like to join Me, reach out soon and appropriately. There is currently no return date, but I’m looking at the first two weeks of June. Don’t drag your feet, darling. You’ll only ruin your shoes. – Good Grief /…

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