About Me

Who are You?
I’m GOOD GRIEF, aka DXXXRK (pronounced “Dark”). DXXXRK is the slippery, thicker-skinned part, and GOOD GRIEF is My pretty piece of flesh. We’re she/they/it and a queer Woman/Divine being of colour. I’m from London, UK and also based in Dublin, Ireland.

I’m an ex-adult model, but I’m now a slippery Self-portrait Artist and Escort. I was previously a Dominatrix first, but as of April 2026, I’ve decided to open My books for both sweet submission and delightfully dominant experiences. Are you ready to play?


What are your stats?
Age: 33 / Background: British / Ethnicity: Turkish Cypriot, part Egyptian / Hair: Brunette / Eyes: Hazel / Language: English / Accent: North Londoner, British / Height: 5’6″ / Figure type: Pear / Dress size: UK 10 / Bra size: 32C / Shoe size: UK 5 / Tattoos: None / Piercings: Ears, Nipples & Septum

What do You like/love?
Acts of Servitude, Afternoon Tea, Animals, Anime and Manga, Art, Dark Humour, Film, Fine Dining, Flexibility Training, Francis Bacon, Fun Activities, Gifts, Head Pats, Japanese Culture, Lol!ta Fashion, Marie Antoinette, Pink (the colour), Shibari/Rope Bondage, Thoughtfulness, Video Games, Vivienne Westwood, What it means to be human, and Wriggling my fingers through someone else’s skull.

Favourite cuisine/places to eat?
Japanese, Italian and French. I enjoy a Michelin-starred restaurant as well as a gorgeous traditional pub or pâtisserie. I’m not limited to these, and I love to explore places that bring My companion joy.

What else might I like to know about You?
Chronic illness has lead Me to seek the things that make life beautiful and alive, but this also means I’m very aware of how sacred My time is. This is reflected in My rates and expectations.

Why do you do this?
I do this because I think I’m good at it. I’m a nice person to be around. I’ve always been the open-minded friend, and I genuinely love connecting with people via the kink scene. I’m thoughtful, patient, and have great insight. I crave human connection, but I also welcome those who want to make My life easier. Humans are incredibly interesting, and it’s an honour to make someone feel safe with Me.

What’s GRIEF SYNDROME?
Inspired by the pain of magical girls in anime, it’s an art series based on My experiences with BPD/EUPD. It blends the GOOD GRIEF and DXXXRK parts of Me together.

Where can I find You/support You online?
Instagram | Kinky London Escorts | Tryst | Throne (Wishlist) | Tip Funder | Fetlife | LinkTree | Adult Work (content, webcam & booking) | Strip Chat (content & webcam). If it’s not linked here, it’s not affiliated with Me.