DXXXRK Diary

In honour of my previous blog. We share something old, something new, and something DXXXRK.

  • Three months later: Opening my books for Submission

    When I first started as Zex, submission was what I was known for. Always spreading myself (thin) for the audience. It was a role that was decided for me, rather than a choice I was given, and thus, gave me mixed feelings towards the idea of submitting to others. It’s not true submission if it’s…

  • Travel update: London, UK, 5th August 2026

    Good morning, I’ve been asked by many to reach out on my return to London. The time has come! I’ll be in London, UK from Wednesday 5th August, and will be there for roughly two weeks (or longer if there’s something pleasing to keep me around). Please don’t leave your application till last minute. That always…

  • Asexuality and Sex Work

    Asexual: Asexual people — also known as “Ace” or “Aces” — may experience little or no sexual attraction and/or experience sexual attraction in a non-normative way. Demisexual (on the asexuality spectrum): People who only experience sexual attraction once they form a strong emotional connection with another person. Reference: The Trevor Project In case you didn’t…

  • Why are humans being trained to accept AI? From the perspective of a Dominatrix

    It’s easy to get others to fulfil tasks when you force them into submission, but there’s no art in that. Any good Dominatrix/negotiator will tell you that genuine empathy and active consent is the only way to achieve healthy and mutual goals in the long run. Berating people is rich man’s approach, and not exactly…

  • Important hiatus and travel update

    Oh goodness, I don’t even know where to start. First of all – I missed you, pretty website, *kiss kiss kiss*. Anyone following my socials will know that I’ve been in website limbo for the last week or so. My previous hosting site no longer wanted to be associated with those in the world’s oldest…

  • Protected: The art of Dollification

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