Educational

  • It’s easy to get others to fulfil tasks when you force them into submission, but there’s no art in that. Any good Dominatrix/negotiator will tell you that genuine empathy and active consent is the only way to achieve healthy and mutual goals in the long run. Berating people is rich man’s approach, and not exactly…

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  • “Stressed out day and cute lad broke me.” CW: harassment, emotional abuse I was broadcasting via Free Mode on Saturday. If you’re a spicy worker, you know what the vibe can be like. For me, it’s people coming in, backing out immediately, or in mid conversation. The few stick around and we jabber away. I’m…

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  • Trigger warning: Rape, sexual assault The lack of sex education and its increased censorship is weakening our understanding of humanity. With sex being something that connects most human beings, misinformation on what happens when the connection is undesired, is harmful. Some still see rape as being at the fault of the victim, or a “misunderstanding”…

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  • I remember my first latex purchase. It was a maid dress from Sharon Sloane. I attempted to try it on in the bathroom, without a dressing aid. I was 17 at the time, and trying to impress the guy I lost my virginity to. Anyway, it rips (obviously), and I guess I threw it in…

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  • When I use to model, I was also a professional rigger (non-suspension). These days, I tie mostly for solo play or when I’m wrapping gifts for friends. I’ve had a lot of people over the years come across me in Shibari, asking for advice on rope, video tutorials, books, etc. I’m gonna put it all…

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