When I ask men, “What do you have to offer (Me)?” or, “Why do you think we’d be a good fit?”, they respond with the following:

“I’m 6 foot (+)”
“I’m great at sex, and you’ve had nothing like me”
“I think you’re better looking than other women”

These answers are boring yet so interesting to Me. It’s very telling of the time we’re living in, along with the misconception of what men think women desire. Height is great when changing a light bulb, but I can also just use a step ladder. I thought we were past one’s manhood and height being a source of a man’s worth and attraction? What good is a decent fuck if he’s still gonna give Me a headache?

I understand shallow women exist, but the majority don’t care so much about height. As for dick size and performance, this doesn’t fall into My “offerings” category. Like a great ass, it just sits pretty. Sure, a fat one on your face is fun, but it’s not the thing that defines worth. I might sound like a hypercrite because I do love My ass and feet, but My most alluring asset is definitely My insight, openness, and how much I push/test Myself. I am an experience, and I am wanting of that experience to be amplified in our chemistry, and what he can provide.

As for men who say I’m hottest in the room – although I love being admired, I don’t appreciate putting another woman down in order to do that. I’m an advanced player, baby. All My friends are fucking gorgeous, and the parties I go to are full of beautiful people. They’re not competition; they’re My community and My source of inspiration.

Back to the topic at hand – let’s talk more about this idea of attraction, desire, worth, and what it’s doing to men.

I had a client on stream ask Me what My type was (in regards to men). For Me, height, race, eye colour, etc, don’t come to mind. I say I like interesting men. Ones with a drive and a passion. Those who mean what they say and show initiative. Those who show they’ve been listening. Honest. Well-mannered. Those who respect Me and My time. I love a man who makes Me laugh, and can keep Me entertained. Someone with knowledge. Someone I can learn from.

Ask a man what he’s looking for, it’s usually aesthetic-based. Breast and ass. Hair colour. Height. Race. Kinks. Tattoos, piercings, etc. Natural or not. I know because I ask.

As a woman who often cams with young men, I can tell you where all that protein is going; right on their perfect abs and massive dicks. I’m not gonna lie – it’s pretty fun to look at, but it’s still interesting to Me that men think abs, height and big dongs are the key elements of desire, offerings and attraction. These (young) men do all sorts to achieve a certain aesthetic, and yet, it’s these same men who find themselves more comfortable talking to me – a 30-something whore on their laptop screen, rather than a (younger) woman their age IRL. These tall, well-endowed, well-tailored young men, who are contorting themselves into what they think the opposite sex is wanting, and yet, they don’t seem to utilise the IRL connection once it’s achieved, most likely because they still don’t know how to.

As for gentlemen on the older side, they’re a hit and miss, and often full of empty promises. My previous alias was used to that. They highlight their manners and leave a paragraph of what they have to offer, without meeting My basic expectations – to fill out My contact form correctly. However, I appreciate those who leave sweet notes of thanks after a moment of filth, and the respect they show to a woman’s time. They’re experienced enough to understand its value. Still – older gentleman can be just as insecure when it comes to that first question. Honey, I don’t care about the weight you gained over the summer, or the colour of your skin. I care that you are polite and willing.

“Would you date you?”

When I ask someone, “What do you have to offer Me?” or “Why do you think we’d be a good fit?”, I want that person to do some homework – see where our interests align, see how they can provide or please Me long-term, but I also want them to see themselves. Would you date you? If yes, then why? Surely, it’s not because of your height? If the answer is no, then I’d ask if you’re ready for companionship, or if you think an experience people like I provide could help with that?

I’m currently getting ready for my upcoming trip to London. Reach out with something more longing that your height or manhood.

– Good Grief / DXXXRK